By SITEMBILE SIWAWA
PROUDLY doing the work she loves,
hairdresser Betty Tembo, 40, and mother to a 22-year-old daughter, Betty never
imagined she would be an inspiration to other women by ensuring that she
purchases a house from the money realised from her passion.
Being a school
drop-out did not hinder Ms Tembo from realising her full potential in life but
this only encouraged her to work even harder.
Her dream did not end there but
she went further to acquire the most sought-after possession, a house.
Here is
how Ms Tembo managed to acquire what she has and to be where she is at the
moment and where she hopes to see herself in the near future: "I was born in
Petauke in the Eastern Province on June 16, 1973 but life was not easy for my
mother because my father died while my mother was still pregnant with me", said
Ms Tembo.
With the death of her husband and the hardships endured in Petauke, Ms
Tembo's mother decided to relocate to Lusaka hoping for greener pastures and
settled in Bauleni where her interest for hair plaiting developed.
"We had a
neighbour who used to work in a salon in Chilenje and whenever she went for
work, I would accompany her to learn the ropes of hair plaiting", said Ms Tembo.
Unfortunately, Ms Tembo dropped out of school in Grade Five due to long
distances she had to cover when trekking from Bauleni to Chilenje A Basic
School.
After acquiring the skill of hair plaiting, Ms Tembo found herself
working at Dolly hair salon in Chilenje market in 1988 but she didn't last there
as her focus was on setting up her own business.
It cannot be disputed that Ms
Tembo was determined to make a difference in her life.
"In 1995 three of my
friends and I acquired a shop at the town centre and we were lucky that we
already had our own customers, hence it was easy to quickly establish
ourselves." she said.
When Ms Tembo fell pregnant, the father of her child did
not marry her. She raised her daughter single-handedly, something she proudly
speaks about.
"Since the father of my child refused to marry me, I have been
taking care of my daughter since birth.
The money from hair plaiting has seen
her through school and now she hopes to go to college to study nursing", said
Betty.
By 2003 the hair plaiting business was booming as there were very few
hairdressers. It was at this point that she acquired land in Garden House area
along Mumbwa road and started building a house which took her about four years
to complete.
"When I had raised enough money, I decided to buy a plot in the
Garden house area and built a house so that my child and I could have a place to
call home.
Besides my house, I am also putting up a three by one-block of flats
on the same plot", she said.
As the old adage goes Rome was not built in a day,
Ms Tembo's house wasn't built in a day, months or a year but with the
perseverance, determination and endurance she withstood all storms.
To date Ms
Tembo and her daughter have been living in the Garden house home for the last
six years and thumbs up to her intelligence.
Lack of business is a major
challenge facing Betty and many hair dressers today because many people have
opted to tale up this noble yet simple job including the Masai from East Africa
posing stiff competition by plaiting the 'Masai braids'.
Three Masai men can
plait one person within four hours but can take two to three days when done by
local hair dressers. Masai braids can last up to four months.
Besides being a
hair dresser, Ms Tembo also travels to Nakonde to buy clothes for re-sell in
Lusaka which include dresses, skirts, tops and trousers for ladies and says she
is pleased with this line of business.
She was, however, quick to advise women
not to degrade themselves by using improper channels of making money, but to use
whatever talent God has given them to better themselves.
"In as much as
education is the key to success as an old adage has it, talent and skill can
make one succeed in what they do, if put to good use," she said.
And as we
celebrate this year's Women's' Day whose theme is 'The Gender agenda: Gaining
momentum' it is important to also focus attention on women who maybe considered
less important as they, too, contribute to the economic development of the
country.
In her spare time, Ms Tembo loves gardening and cleaning her home.
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